The full question: ‘She’s insane. She’s in “LOVE”. She left her family to come to me. I dated other girls but she’s like, “I can live with that…” - N yeah she’s 14 years older than me… a 31 year old brunette! What to do? 
‘
What’s your problem? You’re the luckiest guy I know…
Make the most of it while you can.
Guy Blews (aka. Dr. Smack) – www.SmackTherapy.com
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Demanding to be loved is a sure sign of neediness.
I think there can be a discipline of resilience to the need to have another\’s love, loving yourself instead as the centre of the mandala.
But just the narcissistic quality of it means, it\’s nice to have another as a mirror. Without having the fear of loss.
February 28th, 2009 at 10:12 pm