The full question: ‘I am seeing this girl, we’ve had sex a couple of times and I like her. But I noticed that when she feels a little too involved with me, she pulls back and so I then have to play the game just right to make her feel relaxed again. What should I do when she pulls away? And, is she playing me?’

The answer:

I like her – she sounds cool.

So you have to be cool back. Give her the option to see you, but make the invitation easy so you are not left hanging if she says no. And then give her just enough rope, but don’t let her hang you with it.

And one other thing – get yourself another girl to take your mind of her. It will help. And then it won’t matter if she’s playing you, because you played her first.

Smack!

Guy Blews (aka.Dr. Smack) – www.SmackTherapy.com

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